Marrying the Right Person!

When I think about marrying Mr. Right, I imagine how happy I will be in that moment, and, without sounding too cliché, what joy will fill my heart. I wonder how I will truly know that it’s him. Will it seem as though a spotlight is shining down on him? Have I met him already and just didn’t know it?

Let's be honest, we have all wondered about that special someone we will want to enjoy our life with. Once you have reached that point where you have dated someone long enough that you feel there is a good chance you are headed toward marriage, what are the right questions to ask?

Sometimes I think as young women we can get caught up in the glamour of the wedding and be so focused on the pictures that we want to put on social media that we overlook what to others may seem like obvious red-flags. 

I recognize that once you are married you have to become as one with your spouse. Each has to think as much or more about the other than they do for themselves. Our spouse’s needs should be a primary consideration. I believe that the first year of marriage is likely going to be one of the hardest because of the adjustments needed to live for the first time with a new companion. Problems will need to be worked out without waiting until it is too late.